Pots and Peruvians: A History of Anal Sex

Back in August 2017, All We Cannot Say guest and sex educator Gigi Engle penned an article for Teen Vogue. The topic? Anal sex. Far removed from what we traditionally and wrongly believe is publishable fodder for teenage girls – dating, interviews with celebrities, fashion, etc – Engle’s unprecedented guide to anal sex had parents, the media, and other keyboard warriors...

Gaining courage to move past unrequited love

“There is no path we can walk that will not take us through some form of heartbreak,” David Whyte tells us. “And to accept that truth is to give a merciful gift to ourselves.” My first...

unofficial breakups

Unofficial breakups – do they hurt any less?

When I tell people about my unofficial breakups with unofficial partners, I feel undeserving of my hurt. I’m the one who is overreacting because it wasn’t serious or an official relationship, so...