unofficial breakups

Unofficial breakups – do they hurt any less?

When I tell people about my unofficial breakups with unofficial partners, I feel undeserving of my hurt. I’m the one who is overreacting because it wasn’t serious or an official relationship, so...

Why you still cannot find The One

This post is part of a series that explores the quest for the perfect match.  Part 1 of this post is over here. Nine months ago I wrote a post that went more viral than a Trump Tweet. It was covered...

find the one

Why you cannot find The One

“Write about the search to find The One,” he said. “That’s what’s fucking killing everyone.” “The search?” Did he mean finding a new rent controlled apartment that wasn’t possessed...

Everything Is Waiting For You

It’s the end of season one and I’m in Valencia. I’m on the last leg of my European trip, and after 3 months of travelling, my mind is still processing all of the lessons I’ve...